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Monday 27 May 2013

Flirting!!! Is it appropriate to Flirt??

Absolutely Not! Remember when David sinned with bethsheba, it started from him looking, We think sometimes its okay to do "little things" but that is how it starts n sin is conceived and begins to grow. Also u have to ask wat kind of example are you setting and what are you saying when you do that. I don't believe it is pleasing to God and our aim is to please Him... Not our sinful desires or someone else's desires...( By Sis Lindsay)

Flirting is like a veil or a divergence that shift man's focus from God's will, Let's not forget that david was also anointed. Infact, he manifested as a priest, king and prophet as well, And flirting won't come if we don't let our guard loose.  The second we disconnect from the holy spirit, God's presence that's the moment the door is open for the devil.
And he would simply launch his attack through the flesh. Flirting is one of the product of lust. And to my definition, flirting is the act of admiring someone in lust. If God can't behold sin, then He can't behold flirting. Admiration that's going beyond a normal complement should be avoided.And its said in the scripture that what comes from inside is what defiled a man. But what devil does is that he frame it and make it look like just an admiration, before you know it the would have start processing and projecting sinful plans that contaminate one's destiny. Another example also was, samson he also was anointed but yet he allowed He's flesh to take over him and since the day one he set his eyes on deliela, he flirt on her with lust admiration then the devil knew his weak point.(By Bro Bukola Joseph George)

According to the dictionary, flirting is a social and sometimes sexual activity. It can be verbal, written communication. It can also include body language to another person that provides interest in deeper relationship or sexual activity.

Well, the bible didn't really say anything directly regarding flirting but it does leads to other sexual sins. So I guess it is better to flee and run away from it than it engage init.  However, some believe that flirting is a way to show u are interested in the person or for the person to 'notice' you. Inotherewords, it is a way of getting attention. Flirting and lust are related. Flirting is showing liking to the extent of sexually involvement with the person, while lust is craving for a person...leading to sexual desire too.

The bible says some many things about lust. For instance, in Matthew 5:27-30...if any part of ur body cause u to commit sin, then you should cut it away or flee from it.

Inconclusion, whatever we do should be to God's glory (1 Corinthians 10:31). So anything that will leads to sin or cause you to sin...please flee (2 Timothy 2:22). (By Sis Iyinoluwa Ojekunle)

Hmm Brothers even Sisters get carried away Flirting..... Opening the wall for the lizard to penetrate. John10:10 the thief cometh to steal kill and destroy. Beware people, its so rampant in the midst of brethren. Flirting is different from appreciation or Appreciating someone. Flirting is not necessarily sexual centred. You can see a friend looking next to commiting suicide but for selfish and deceit you start praising on your lips but mocking in your heart. It is a sin. Sin is sin even if its like a drop if water in the ocean. Even sisters you see a guy you run over to him rubbing him with all your bodily appreciation which is meant for your future husband and you say we are friends only. Seriously you need to check yourself. Married woman always using her bum to divert brethren's attention on purpose probably you are in the ushering department in Church or a Nurse in the hospital. Patient or Brethren particularly love your service because your body is doing the talk while your mind is loaded with impure thought. Flirting goes a long way. We have to be careful seriously. Checking a sister or Brother dp on BB or Profile picks on whatsapp or social media and your mind has taken off their clothes yet you claim to be a child of God. You need deliverance conducted by the holyspirit. You better go on your knees and seek God for way out. May God open the eyes of our hearts to see the tactics of the enemy of our soul in Jesus name. Rapture can take place anytime. I believe we all understand that Death of an individual can be their rapture moment and Holyspirit will be our wings so you must stay connected at all times. Flee from any appearance of evil. Above all ask God for grace. It is well in Jesus name amen. (By Sis Leah 'Bukonla Adepehjuh).

2 comments:

HaNx KiNg said...

Nice educative post.When the bible said flee, this i s one of the reason. Every sexual immorality and fornication being done by individual has it root in flirting.

Leah Adepehjuh said...

Thanks For the comment Hanx King. God bless you amen

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